I hate to break it to you, but life doesn't get easier, or better, at all, at any point in time... Okay, so I'm aware how gloomy the first few sights of my blog has probably made you feel but I have good intentions- I promise … You'd think that having happy-go-lucky messages pushed on to people will provide a quick fix to the problems that they and the world faces but the truth is that it couldn't be more far off. Everyday we are told, "Be grateful", "Be happy", "Smile more", "Fake it till you make it", and surely the person saying that means good, right? Well, I hate to break it to you but all that fake positivity is exactly that, FAKE! I'm here to tell you that it's okay to not be okay, to fail, to not have an absolute clue of what it is that you want to do with your life. You're failing grad school? Great. Your 4-year relationship just ended? absolutely fantastic! You are at rock bottom and you have to start over? ...